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hi

welcome to our follow back blog. here’s what you need to know:

quick about:

  1. this account belongs to a system who has DID.
  2. we used to have a lot of sideblogs for specific headmates. after being treated like shit in various ways for having a DNI. we decided we’re just. not gonna have our own personal blogs anymore! most of them are privated now.

sideblogs that are still up that you can follow if you want:

do not follow:

note:

  • we’re not debating with you and we do not give a shit about anything you have to say if you happen to encounter this blog at random and get pissy about our dni, use the block button - dni means “do not interact” not “interact because you’ve decided YOU’RE right and need to tell me i’m a piece of shit for asking you to not interact”.
  • for complete clarity: being involved in system discourse / proship discourse / mspec discourse triggers us now. it can, has, and most likely will cause us panic attacks or other dangerous mental health symptoms.
  • sorry for sounding aggressive in the above points, but for some fucking reason over the past two years we’ve been misgendered, knowingly triggered on purpose, and otherwise purposefully harassed by people because of our dni so at this point we’re not fucking being nice. please do us both a favor and do not break your own dni just to be annoying to us. (if YOU claim to not want pro endogenics / etc to interact with you… then. don’t… go interact with those people on purpose??) we’d like to make it clear that if you do this, we will now ping blogs like sysmedical-blocklist and let them know of your url since you’re obviously not going to obey your own “dni” and like entering spaces to start discourse with people who didn’t ask or who made it clear what could harm their mental health.

apologies if this comes off aggressive. we don’t usually have to say things like this. we’re just tired of being treated badly online at this point.

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supermary64
palipunk

The fact that the Palestine tag rn is full of people talking about Eurovision while still watching the show after years of Palestinians asking for boycott - two Palestinians were murdered yesterday but you can’t even turn the tv off. Are you serious.

palipunk

I didn’t know this until now, but the Palestinian flag is quite literally on a banned flag list for Eurovision along with the Crimean Tatar, Basque, Artsakh, and Kosovo flag as of 2016 - so no I have no respect for this show and neither should you.

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abermetta
bananonbinary

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hey quick psa if you're a new tumblr user, you might want to consider enabling the "custom theme" option in settings, even if you DON'T want to create a custom theme, because it actually is what allows other people to visit your blog directly instead of looking at it on the dashboard. which is a) what 95% of us are already used to anyway, and b) just overall a much nicer experience; the dashboard view is small and infinite scroll-y and makes it kinda a pain in the butt to link to. even the default theme for the "custom url" version is bigger, cleaner, and lets people easily browse through your blog and tags

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bisexualboyfriendwife

Never understood narcissistic abuse believers like I barely understand narcissist as a lazy insult but when u r talking about being abused by someone with a disorder it is genuinely disgusting to classify the disorder as the primary proponent of the abuse and you might be a little fucking dense to boot. I don't like to talk about this too much bc people are soooo fucking crazy about it. Basically. You wouldn't call it bipolar abuse. You wouldn't call it schizophrenic abuse. It's stupid to use such a term on top of the obvious ableism

bisexualboyfriendwife

It is not dismissive of abuse to ask that you please, for love of fuck, update the ableism out your language and rhetoric in the year 2023. Stop being a fucking baboon and have some fucking class. We are all hurting. I've been hurt by a narcissist parent. No I don't blame her fucking disorder. Because that's like. That's like excusing the abuse and delegating it to this illness. Thats equally bad as pinning abuse on ppl with npd that have nothing to do with what I went through. Man I'm heated. Fuck yall man. Get your shit together

just-call-me-vendetta

I disagree. It's like the whole family excusing the actions and words of the family drunk because "that's just how they are".

I can't look past the fact that their alcoholism isn't the cause of their problem.

With narcissists, people are the addiction and their behavior towards people IS based on their NPD. So, I'm sorry I will NOT separate the two. My bipolar disorder will not get me an excuse in a court of law but it will be assessed as PART of the problem.

The narcissism IS PART OF THE PROBLEM!!

tartrazeen

Part of the problem, sure, in the way that it might even be the driving force behind it. But so many people treat narcissism as a shorthand for "Guaranteed Abuser" - like you have no choice *but* to be abusive purely because you're narcissistic. It's the instant demonization that's being discussed.

In your example, a different situation is happening: it's a family dismissing the harmful actions of the family drunk because "that's just how they are." You're correct that that's messed up, but that's not the instant demonization that was being described!

Using that example, the situation would be more like, "You hurt me and said something awful to me. You're probably a drunk. Oh, you've actually had alcohol at some point in your life? I knew it. All drunks are like that. Drinking anything ever means you're gonna be an abusive asshole - we should call it alcohol abuse, because that abuse literally only ever happens when alcohol is involved."

It's completely skipping the part where people who aren't alcoholics could still be just as abusive, and it demonizes people who are alcoholics but aren't hurting anyone (other than themselves, unfortunately :( ). It oversimplifies the problem of the abuse to be a simple checkbox: alcoholic? Therefore abusive. Abusive? Must be alcoholic. It also includes the people whose abuse of others is being driven by the alcoholism, but that's because such a massive net was cast that you can't help but include them too.

So to go back to the original points, if someone was narcissistic and was abusing their child, their narcissism could very well be a part of explaining why that abuse is happening. But it doesn't mean that everyone on earth who's narcissistic is automatically abusive - and that's the point that was being raised: that some people were saying being a narcissist was so automatically guaranteed to make someone abusive that they decided to coin a term like 'narcissistic abuse' to cement that bad take.

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serenado-exe

So anyway -

The point is that Pizza Tower still has a racist, outdated stereotype of Indigenous people in the Oregano Desert level.

It even has a achievement for rain dancing around a totem pole (totem poles are a Pacific Northwest thing, not a Plains Tribe thing). They war cry at you and they throw tomahawks (because it's always tomahawks or spears).

Bellyache about the screencaps being 5 years old if you want, but the stereotype made it into the game, so he hasn't changed that much. He didn't change enough to have a shred of awareness about using a racist stereotype. And before anyone tries: that trope isn't a hallmark of Wario games or 90s animation, it's a hallmark of racism.

Even if he "doesn't" make bigoted jokes anymore (though I would consider the Tribe Cheese one such joke), he made an entire level based around that trope.

And like every other time there's an anti-Indigenous caricature in videogames or popular media, it doesn't get mentioned, or it gets glossed over because the creator went "Oopsie! That was cringe."

The exclusion of the Tribe Cheese from that salvo of screenshots undermines the entirety of it, because it's a solid example of him not having changed enough to be conscious beyond "that was unfunny," and everyone just focuses on what he said and when - without the connection to how that mindset still lingers in the final product of the game.

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nidoskull

Anonymous asked:

i dont pay attention to pizza tower stuff what stereotype?

blarghdearcs answered:

the tribe cheese

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theyre uhhh. native american stereotypes in like. a cowboys vs indians themed level i think. they were literally originally named “indian cheese” instead

they throw tomahawks and do rain dances around totem poles to strike the player with lightning. so normal stuff you know.

blarghdearcs

yes also this

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plus it isnt like he didnt know. 100% the opposite. hes gotten pissed off at people for being angry at a native stereotype character before (that one game & watch drama - look at how they call native people "indians" again here and he proceeds to call it "faggotry"

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blarghdearcs

i am literally begging all the white ppl to stop ignoring this shit and brushing it off as a coincidence or not a big deal. this dude is a misogynistic racist ableist asswipe

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blarghdearcs

for ppl who are still skeptical, i put together a google drive containing more screenshots. general warning for everything already listed above - theres also a (unfinished?) pdf i managed to find, though i dont have anything else pertaining to what happened there

(please ignore the name its because hes from quebec. LOL.)

also this post isnt a call to ruin him or some shit and "further radicalize" him its to hold him accountable and make sure that the shit he said in his *main public discord server* dont continue ro go unnoticed and uncared for

blarghdearcs

he has made (sortof) a response here and does acknowledge it was shallow & unfunny, but i do hope he makes an actually well thought out post on this eventually. ofc people can change and im 100% willing to believe he is capable, but he does still need to talk about the culture of racism and overall bigotry in his community (alongside apologizing for the old shit.)

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